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When Should You Start Sleep Training for Your Baby?

What Is Sleep Training?

Sleep training refers to a process that helps babies learn how to fall asleep and stay asleep independently. It includes creating consistent bedtime routines, recognizing sleep windows, ensuring a safe sleep environment, and applying appropriate techniques based on age and development.

When to Start Sleep Training?

Earliest Recommended Age: 4 Months

Experts recommend starting sleep training around 4 months, because:

  • The circadian rhythm begins to regulate.
  • Babies can consolidate nighttime sleep more effectively.
  • Sleep associations (rocking, nursing to sleep) may start forming.

However…

Each baby is unique. Look for signs that indicate your baby is ready for sleep training:

Signs Your Baby May Be Ready for Sleep Training

  • Frequent night wakings and inability to fall back asleep independently
  • Short and fragmented daytime naps
  • Dependency on feeding or rocking to fall asleep
  • Unpredictable sleep and wake cycles
  • Increased sleep challenges after the 4-month sleep regression

If several of these signs are present, your baby may benefit from a structured sleep training plan.

Before You Start Sleep Training: Key Considerations

  • Baby should be healthy. Avoid starting during teething, illness, or vaccination periods.
  • Parents should feel emotionally ready. Consistency is essential.
  • Ensure a safe sleep environment. Remove pillows, toys, blankets, and soft items.
  • Evaluate nighttime feeding needs. Some babies may still require one night feed between 4–6 months.

Popular Sleep Training Methods

1. Ferber Method (Controlled Crying)

Allows brief intervals of checking in on the baby while encouraging independent sleep.

2. Chair Method

Parents sit near the crib and gradually move away each night, offering presence but reducing intervention.

3. No Tears Approach

Focuses on gentle, responsive techniques that avoid crying and support emotional needs. Slower but low-stress.

4. Pick Up / Put Down Method

Pick up the baby when they cry, soothe them, and lay them down again. Repeated as needed.

The effectiveness of each method varies. Some babies adapt quickly, others need more time and gradual progress.

Challenges You May Face During Sleep Training

  • Initial resistance and increased crying
  • Night wakings may temporarily increase
  • Parental doubt or inconsistency
  • Developmental regressions or teething may interfere

Consistency and patience are the keys to long-term success. When in doubt, consult a pediatrician or certified sleep consultant.

Tips for Building a Sleep Routine Before and During Training

  • Start a calming bedtime routine at the same time each night (bath, lullaby, book).
  • Ensure daily exposure to natural light and physical activity.
  • Avoid screens before bedtime.
  • Limit stimulating activities or heavy feeds right before sleep.